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Minimizing disputes about your custody agreement

On Behalf of | May 4, 2021 | Child Custody |

Continuing a relationship with your ex is probably one of the hardest parts of sharing children together. Splitting custody of your children means reaching an agreement about who will care for the children and under what conditions.

You will also need to negotiate decision-making expectations to determine that your children have what they need. Managing a custody agreement without disagreements requires teamwork on behalf of you and your ex.

Put your children first

One of the best ways to get along with anyone is to find common ground. Child custody agreements are no different. When you and your ex agree to set differences aside and elevate the needs of your children, you may feel less tension and more respect for each other’s parenting roles.

The courts will also assess the needs of your children to make recommendations regarding their well-being. According to The Florida Senate, courts will look at multiple factors when determining the most ideal living situation for your children. These areas may include the following:

  • The ages of your children
  • The relationships your children have with their parents
  • The emotional and psychological health of your children
  • The ability of you and your spouse to provide a stable home
  • The physical and mental health of you and your spouse

Balance flexibility and consistency

Holding unrealistic expectations for yourself or your ex will undoubtedly create disagreements and tension. When negotiating an agreement, be realistic about your commitments and grant the same grace to your ex. Recognize that both of you may need to balance work, parenting commitments and other obligations.

At the same time, coordinating with your ex to establish a consistent schedule and routine for your children can facilitate their adjustment. Looking for ways to keep things consistent between households and practicing flexibility when things do not go as planned can mitigate discord.